by Pam Custers | Mar 27, 2017 | Category One
There is no such thing as the perfect parent. There I said it! Many of us strive for that goal which in its self is not a bad thing but not if it makes us feel like a failure. Children don’t need a super parent, nor the perfect version of you just you with all the...
by Pam Custers | Jan 24, 2017 | Category One
So you are experiencing some problems in your marriage and you have decided that it would be useful to have some couples counselling. This is may be a turning point in your relationship. Deciding on who you are happy to work with and trust is imperative. Finding a...
by Pam Custers | Jan 12, 2017 | Category One
From the time we take our first breath we are relational in nature. Relationships are vital for our wellbeing and happiness. I work with all relationships including those that are seeking one. I work with people who are stressed anxious or isolated. Couples who are...
by Pam Custers | Sep 9, 2016 | Category One
Communication is central in my practice. It is the corner stone to almost all of our conversations. So it is strange perhaps for me to be talking about not communicating! I work with many parents around how to manage technology in the home. Surprisingly often, parents...
by Pam Custers | Sep 9, 2016 | Category One
It was towards the end of a session with a couple whose relationship had turned around, grown and found its Mojo. Occasional sessions are affirming, not only for them but for me. It keeps me ever mindful that working with people to make meaningful changes is very...
by Pam Custers | Feb 28, 2015 | Category One
“Help we might as well be talking different languages!” “We just don’t communicate very well” One section in my intake form is on communication. This is often the part that causes the most discussion. Each person brings with them a different style of...
